Thursday, July 8, 2010

The Idea of The Perfect Life




Last two days, my sis & I went to the movies since it has been like 3 months long dried out of foreign movie influence in my head lol. So we decided to see Sex & The City 2 (well i have to know what happened to Carrie & Mr.Big don't I :D) I have been waited for this one since the first movie came out :D Just can't get enough of her. After being a fan since the first episode in her long journey of TV seasons, this will be a nice treat to see the girls again.

In the movie, one scene attracted me the most. It's where a lovely couple that bump into Carrie & Mr.Big at Carrie's best gay friend wedding- Stanford Blatch. They claim that they have the exact life as Carrie & Mr.Big(since she's a freelance writer and everybody knew her famous column), but when it came to babies intervention both are shock to know that Carrie & Mr.Big have no plans to have "babies topic" in their marriage. Just like Mr.Big said it's like telling kids that Santa's not exist, kind of face expression :D

Is that how we defined perfect life? Study-have degree-work you ass-get married-have lots of kids-(get divorce-if laa)-get old-then die?What if we don't get married? or no kids? Does our life not perfect? What about happiness? Doesn't it count? What i have learn from the movie is that our life maybe slightly different from others. Slightly complicated and not so fairy tale like. But hey it is our life. We decided what we want and how we going to run it. Yes, I do agree that living with society will somehow effect how we think and do things but bare in mind that we are the one who going to get all the consequences for everything that we done.

Morale of the story? Don't judge people for not following the traditional way of life. Who are we to judge whether they are happy or not? Who are we to set a standard on a perfect life? Maybe they are not married but at least they don't have to face the ugly divorce scene. Maybe they have no kids but at least they don't "buang bayi tepi sampah". What I'm trying to say is... Just love your life no matter what other people think :D Just remember that EVERY DARK CLOUD HAVE A SILVER LINING.

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